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Galway, the City I Love to Hate

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Galway, the City I Love to Hate

I drove into Galway the evening of April 23, 1998 with two friends. This was the ninth day of a Spring trip to Ireland and two days before my departure home to the United States. I was working on a book about holy places - 'thin' places - and there to interview authors and take photographs of featured sites. April 24th would be my final day in Ireland and was to include traveling to one of the Aran Islands to interview author Dara Molloy, an inhabitant of the island of Inis Mór.

We had made reservations at the Atlantic Heights Bed & Breakfast in Salt Hill through the Proprietor, Madeline Mitchell. We arrived there at 10:00 p.m. and received one of the warmest Irish welcomes of our journey. When I expressed concern to Madeline about catching the ferry to Inis Mór the next morning, she called the Ferry Office at that late hour and booked a reservation for me, which included a bus coming to pick me up in front of the B&B. The next morning I awoke to cloudless, clear, blue skies and looked forward to the grand finale of this trip - The Aran Islands.

Thus began one of the bleakest, most frustrating days of my life.

The bus was scheduled to pick me up between 9:15 and 9:30 a.m. At 9:45 I was still waiting. Madeline came out, sweetly made a joke about being on “Irish time” and phoned Sally O’Brien at the Ferry Office. The boat was due to depart for Inis Mór at 10:30 a.m. I was nervous because I was to meet Dara Molloy at the foot of Dun Aengus (a landmark on Inis Mór) at 12:30 p.m. I had not yet met Dara. Inis Mór was a crucial site for the book. I wouldn’t have an opportunity to shoot photographs, much less meet the author if it I didn’t reach the island that day. My friends were using our rental car so driving myself to the port wasn’t an option. Madeline pleaded with the Ferry Office explaining that I was a writer and had to be in Inis Mór for an appointment. Since the Ferry Office had scheduled the bus and apparently there had been some mistake, they graciously assumed responsibility for sending a cab to collect me and get me to Rossaveal (the port of departure) in time to get on that boat. They even said they would hold the boat until I arrived. I remember thinking … “Hold the boat? How hospitable!”

The cab arrived at 10:05 driven by the gracious Michael Fallon who did everything in his power to get to Rossaveal quickly. We did, however, hit road construction which held us up an additional fifteen minutes. At 10:50 (20 minutes past departure time) we finally approached the port, drove into the car park and sure enough -- the boat was waiting. All forty passengers were on board with the captain standing by the gangway looking out for us. There was a construction road block prohibiting us from driving the cab up to the dock. Michael tried a few other routes around the buildings but none led to the dock. He even asked the construction workers to let us pass, to which they replied, “no”. Valiant as he was, my cab driver threw caution to the win, defied the authority of road workers, and sped through the barricade and drove me up to the dock.

When we pulled up to the boat, the grizzly captain looked into the window, scowled and said, “I have been holding this boat for twenty minutes and you’re driving all over the place, taking your time.” Michael tried to explain about the barricade, but the captain interrupted looking at me, “You’ll have to pay this driver. I’m not paying him because you weren’t at the bus stop, and our bus was there. The bus driver waited ten minutes for you and now I’ve made these passengers wait another twenty.” I tried to reply but by this time the captain was livid. Michael interjected that I was standing at the proper place waiting for the bus. It didn’t come. When the captain started to shout, Michael, in my defense said, “Sir, your behavior is deplorable!” The captain shouted something at Michael and then barked at me, “Are you going to get on this boat or not? I’m not making these people wait any longer!”

The passengers were all on deck watching this brutal exchange. I knew this visit was crucial, but my cautious, inner voice screamed, “Don’t get on this boat with this lunatic.” I gave Michael twenty pounds for the fare. The impatient captain then picked up the gangway and threw it back onto the ship prohibiting my boarding. Michael begged him to calm down and let me on the boat. The captain looked at me and shouted, “If you’re getting on this boat, you’re getting on now!” I hopped out of the car and my temper got the best of me.

I walked over to the captain, looked up into his ruddy, weathered face, and in front of Michael and forty passengers said, “Nothing is worth putting my life and safety into the hands of lunatic. I pity your passengers.” I then turned my back on the red faced captain, got into the cab and asked Michael to take me to the Ferry Office.

It was there that I discovered what had happened. There was a mix up in communication between Madeline and Sally O’Brien. The bus was not due to stop in front of the B&B, but up a block at Knocknecara Cross. Thus explains the bus not coming to the place where I was waiting, and the bus driver returning to Rossaveal telling the O’Briens that he had been there to collect me, waited ten minutes but I never showed. I uncovered these facts in the Ferry Office during a heated discussion with Sally O’Brien who was defensive to the point of being rude. In the middle of this inflammatory exchange, lo and behold, the grizzly captain emerges from the behind a partition in the office. Michael again tries to come to my defense saying, “How was she to know she was at the wrong stop. She was just doing what she was told.” Sally replied that Michael was a “Hackney” (term for a native of that area) and that he should know better than to side with Americans who are known for being demanding and rude.

I interjected, “Oh, I haven’t even begun to arrive at rude!” Michael came to my defense once again and the angry captain, furious by Michael’s support asked him if he wanted to ‘step outside’ and settle this matter. When Michael refused, the captain stated that NEVER AGAIN would Michael’s cab company do business with O’Brien Shipping. The captain also reminded me that O’Brien shipping was the only company running ferries to Inis Mór and that I’d never get to the island.

Michael and I turned to leave. I gave this one final comment to the O’Briens: “I promise you, I will relay my experience with O’Brien Shipping to anyone who will listen, for as long as I can remember it. I assume when you’re the only game in town, you can afford to be ignorant."

After this vivid display of my arrogant, demanding, American colors; Michael and I departed. When we got into the cab he mentioned that Aer Aran flew small planes to the Islands daily and perhaps they could be of some help. We stopped there to see if there was a chance I could get to Inis Mór by plane.

When I walked into Aer Arann, a polite lady warmly greeted me and asked how my day was going. I replied, “Not good. I have just come from O’Brien Shipping where I was due to get on a boat for Inis Mór. I had a row with the owners, didn’t catch the boat, and I have a 12:30 appointment at the foot of Dun Aengus with an author I have never met, whom I will now be standing up. Is there any chance you can get me to the Island in time for that meeting?”

She checked over the flight schedule, grimaced and shook her head from side to side. I took this to mean “no.” Then she phoned someone and asked if he could take a plane out to Inis Mór within the hour. After writing down some information, she made another call, this time to someone on the island named Michael. She asked, “Michael, I have a writer coming out to Inis Mór. She needs to be at Dun Aengus by 12:30. Can you pick her up from the airstrip and take her down?” After a short conversation with this islander named Michael, she hung up the phone and asked if I could ready in ten minutes. When I expressed concern about returning to the B&B that evening she quelled my worries by assuring me they’d have a van ready to take me back upon my return from Aran. All was taken care of. Within twenty minutes I was the only passenger on a small plane that took a ten minute jaunt to the Island of Inis  Mór arriving in time for my appointment. Once again, the hospitality and good will of the Irish people insured a happy ending.

Once I landed on Inis Mór, Michael, the islander was patiently waiting to collect me and head for Dun Aengus. On the way he pointed out various points of interest, specifically how the islanders built their stone walls with openings so the wind could blow through, briefed me on the lifestyle and livelihoods of the islanders and provided me with a physical description that would help me identify Dara, the author I was to meet.

I was able to pick Dara out the crowd that was descending from Dun Aengus. He was leading a group of people on pilgrimage and they were about to have lunch. I suggested that I photograph Dun Aengus while they were eating and meet him afterwards. He said their lunch would take about an hour and that I should mind the time. He said, “It’s easy to lose track of time when you’re up there. Time stands still. It’s a ‘thin’ place.”

The Irish have given the definition of a “thin place” as a place where the veil between this world and the other world is ‘thin’. Dara was correct - Dun Aengus is a "thin place". Once on top of the ancient fort, with endless sky, panoramic views, warm winds, pristine edges of the sheer cliffs with waves pelting against them, then settling back into a sapphire ocean, it was a timeless experience --  indelible in my memory, rendering the frustrations in the earlier part of the day meaningless and silly.

In our interview, Dara referred to Inis Mór as his ‘place of resurrection.’

I returned home to Washington, DC the next day. Four months later I received a package from a used book dealer out of Portland, Oregon. It was a rare book on the Roman Empire I had requested almost a year prior and was packed in newspaper. I’m always intrigued by newspapers from different cities with dated news. I carefully unwrapped the paper and began to skim through it. It was the July 2, 1998 issue of The Irish Times. I pondered why a used book dealer in Oregon would have a copy of an Irish newspaper.

As I glanced through the articles I noticed a color photo of two fisherman in a small boat, pulling dead fish out of the water. The headline read ‘Water supply is still safe after fish kill, county council insists.’ One of the fishermen looked familiar. I was sure I knew this guy, but couldn’t connect time or place. I put the paper aside and went back to my work.

A few hours later, the photo resurfaced in my memory. I picked up the paper, found the picture and read the caption. It identified one of the men as Mr. Bill O’Brien. …. I made the connection  ….. Rossaveal .....  the grizzly captain with the red face and scowling demeanor who asked my devoted cab driver, Michael, to step outside.

What were the chances of Bill O’Brien’s photo appearing in The Irish Times in a section used for packing by a used book dealer in Oregon ironically sent to a customer in Maryland who had recently been verbally assaulted by the said Mr. O’Brien? I quickly faxed Madeline, the Salt Hill B&B proprietor, a copy of the photo inquiring if this could be the same man I encountered at the port. She faxed back writing, “Yes, yes …. the man in the photo is your attacker! I am absolutely amazed.”

Who can explain such coincidences? One must wonder if it all means something. But synchronistic events continued to unfold. I was not yet finished with O’Brien memories or encounters with rude Irish men in County Galway.

Six months after that Spring trip, I returned to Ireland to continue work on the book about thin places. One of our authors, Michael Mullen, a well known Irish author from Castlebar, County Mayo recommended I pay a visit to Tom Kenny of Kennys Bookshop in Galway.  Michael was acquainted with Tom and done speaking engagements at Kenny's promoting his own books.  He thought Tom could offer solid advice on promoting the book in Ireland and Western Europe.  Galway became an important stop for this trip.

Downtown Galway is crowded with traffic and pedestrians and parking was a nightmare. In the pouring October rain, I finally found a place to park down by the docks. I walked for what seemed like hours in cold, driving rain, trying to find Kennys. When I finally located the shop, I entered and asked the unenthusiastic man sitting at the counter if he was Tom Kenny.

The man never looked up, but reluctantly replied that he was Des Kenny and that Tom was off for the day. His demeanor was less than welcoming. Perhaps he was having a bad day. Perhaps he was taken aback by my wet hair, soggy clothes and less than professional appearance. Maybe he didn’t like Americans - or perhaps, I bring out the worst in Galway men who appear to be in charge.

Despite the chilly reception from Des, I greeted him warmly, apologized for my shabby appearance, and identified myself as an acquisitions editor from the United Sates. I continued that an author, Michael Mullen, had recommended I pay a visit to Tom Kenny. Des said, “What author recommended you come here?” Again I repeated the name of Michael Mullen. Des replied with a sarcastic comment which illustrated that though Michael may have forged and alliance with Tom Kenny, his alliance with Tom’s brother Des fell a little short.

Trying to divert the conversation to something more agreeable, I began explaining that I was working on a book about Irish holy places. Des interrupted saying “When you get the book in print send us a copy and we’ll determine whether or not we want to sell it.” I replied that my intention in coming to Kenny’s had nothing to do with selling the book or having Kenny’s Bookshop sell the book. Mr. Des cut me off again saying that he didn’t discuss anything about any book until he had a hard copy of it in his hand.

I was being brushed off, and quickly decided not to pursue this matter any further with Des. I handed him one of my business cards and asked that he give it to Tom and I would follow up in writing. Des took one of his business cards, placed it atop mine and gave them both back to me, saying, “Send us a copy of the book when it’s in print. Then we’ll see if it meets our standards.”

I was stunned. The man refused my business card. I left the store, made my way through the labyrinth of Galway’s cobble-stoned streets trying to find my car in the rain. I was cursing to myself about wasting two hours, freezing and having to park so far away. I was also feeling sorry for my good friend, Michael Mullen, who had just had his character attacked by a gruff book dealer whose personality and charm ranked below Fred Flintstone.

As I walked, I reflected on bad times in Ireland. I could only remember two. Coincidentally, they were both in Co. Galway and both involved Irish men in family businesses. Then I remembered three bright sparks all named Michael: Michael Fallon the cab driver, my defender who saw me safely through the O’Brien incident, Michael the islander of Inis Mór who collected me, a nervous and distraught writer at the airstrip, and calmed me with his stories that revealed some of the secret treasures of the island, and my dear friend Michael Mullen of Castlebar who showed a sincere interest in the success of our book and has brought only joy to my life since. In truth, these two incidents were flickers in a blaze of Irish experience rich in hospitality, warmth and friendliness. I couldn’t help pondering all the similarities, wondering if some greater meaning would eventually emerge.

I arrived at my car by the docks. As I started the car, I looked to left to make sure it was safe to pull out into traffic. A huge work boat tied up at the dock directly across the street caught my eye. The large letters sprawled across the hull of the ship said O’Brien Shipping.

Mindie Burgoyne - 1999

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